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How has your life changed since starting college?

13.06.2025 09:50

How has your life changed since starting college?

I still have doubts about myself, have a lot to work on my personality and need to work hard. I will keep trying to see positivity around me and I wish you would do the same.

It will be a year since I started college, so I thought I should share my experience with you.

-Hitesha.

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There are many students who can’t go home frequently because of issues like long distance, travelling issues etc..I can feel their pain.

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I am happy I found them, but the scared half of me always reminds me to be ready for heartbreaks, and I don't expect much.

Why does my 5-year-old daughter keep repeating the words 'they will come for us, they will find us and touch us'? I'm quite scared.

I’ve realized the real value of money.

I felt frustrated, occasionally venting at my family and used to have panic attacks.

The fact that groups break up after the first year is correct.

How do I cope with the fact that I will never have a girlfriend?

In college, I met many people who were faking behaviors in order to look cool, and they still do. This 'pick me' behavior irritates me the most.

In 12th, I struggled to focus on my studies.I didn’t want to take the science stream but had to and wasn’t doing well. As if it wasn’t enough my father transferred to some other city and I was not happy with it.

Going away from that place was my only wish at that time.I had no exposure to the outside world and I knew if I continued my further studies there, I would gain nothing.

Why am I peeing so much without drinking a lot of water? I checked my blood sugar and it is normal. Could it be something else?

Now, I am living 300km away from my family.I miss them.

Many people used to believe that I would not be able to do so, but I did.

Backstory-

Why did you choose not to join Mensa?

In PG, I met 5 other girls from my classroom, and from the start, I kept my expectations low and was sure that I did not fit in with them, so I kept my distance, and my only connection in college was my roommate at that time.She advised me multiple times to hang out with that group. I made it clear to her that it was not right for my well-being to spend time with people with whom I feel uncomfortable.

My roommate soon understood this and stopped hanging out with them before it was too late.Now I have a trio: myself, my roommate, and one of the five girls-who faced the same situation as us.Our vibes matched.

I lacked friends in 12th class,I didn’t understand a single thing those teachers were teaching and used youtube and educational subscriptions for learning.

What is the lowest probability event you have personally witnessed?

I found amazing mentors in my professors.

How has your life changed since starting college?

Thanks for reading my answer.

Atheists, there is a god up there in heaven and he loves you so much that he sent his son to die the worst death imaginable and then to turn into a zombie all to save you from sin. Why do you reject him?

From fighting with sister on small things to fighting on calls/texting.

I have never stayed away from home before this but now I live in a pg with the worst management, manage my own chores, and travel alone.

I witnessed people with no understanding becoming successful simply because they were confident enough to stand on stage and perform.They arrived, performed, and it was finished. Their performance was not that good; it could have been better, yet people applauded as if it were the best.

Why do British people always write "xxx" after their names?

From being at home 24*7 to going home for a few days in 2–3 months.

I’ve become more responsible.

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What does "feeling like your life is over" mean and why is it not in any dictionary online?

From watching news at breakfast- to sharing news on calls

All I meant to say is that if you are fully skilled, know everything, and still have no confidence, You will be considered nothing, but if you have confidence, people will see it as a plus, and this will provide a better opportunity for the future.

I met a lot of fake people and learned how to deal with them.

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made friends

From my daily arguments with dad to missing him.

I have huge respect for their knowledge and dedication to teaching.I consider myself lucky to be able to learn from such experts in their respective fields.

How do you identify a woman player?

For example, many of my collegemates didn’t know what UGC was. The girl who was my senior and was sitting beside me didn’t know that Guide is written by R.K. Narayan. She was going to tick Chetan Bhagat as the answer before I stopped her.

Confidence is the key.

Let’s come to the answer.

What makes someone feel "rich enough" in different societies?

From eating freshly cooked, hot and healthy food prepared by mom with love and care to eating pg’s carelessly made tasteless food.

From bothering mom 24/7 to videocalling mom and describing how my day went.